The unquestionable is there is a gap amongst sight and hearing,between visual and auditory, amid seeing and believing.And the fact is that this gap creates a billion dollarindustry. Improving communication ...
The unqualified is there is a gap amongst sight and hearing,
between visual and auditory, amid seeing and believing.
And the fact is that this gap creates a billion dollar
industry. Improving communication has billions of books on
how-tos sitting upon shelves and training services galore. And
the topic keeps on selling.
People shove themselves to count up their verbal and writing
skills as a prediction to their increased success. How many
have asked the question that Dr. Stephen Covey continually
reminds us to ask, "Is it S.M.A.R.T.?" That is, is it
specific, measurable, achievable, reachable and timely. If
you use smart as a measurement, the fact is, it doesn't
work. Is great communication achievable and realistic? Is
it SMART?
We want to agree to so. We desire to wish so. We want so
badly to stand happening in tummy of millions and tell something as
wisely as, "I have a dream...." Or simpler, we say
something wise to our kids or friends. Yet, have you
ever asked if this was even possible? Martin Luther King
didn't write this speech every by himself and possibly didn't
even make the phrase first. yet we acknowledge it to be.
Based upon our personal lump subsequently sight and solid past nee
we say yes we can attain it all alone, all by ourselves. Has any
wise communication ever truly been written all by one
person? Not usually. There moreover seems to be at least a
spiritual hand.
Did you know that we see things at 1,086 miles per second
and we listen at 1,100 feet per second? Our culture is
speeding stirring because its crafted a "seeing is best" mindset.
Television, Internet, movies, the list goes on. If the
visual world is communication, next is it based on visual
alone? It seems to be going in that direction, doesn't it?
The unlimited is that never the two shall meet -- seeing and
hearing. They are too far away apart in the spectrum. In order
to hear, in reality hear, one must slow next to to what seems later a
baby crawl in comparison to the swiftness of roomy and our
sights reflection.
Yet, it takes the two to fully understand communication does
it not. Not sure, subsequently that is correct. How would the
visually impaired or hearing impaired communicate then?
What is the swiftness of feeling? Is it faster or slower than
light or faster or slower than hearing? Is it measured by
feet or by miles? No one knows, I don't think. Its never
been quantitatively tested, at least anywhere I could find.
Yet can it be? If you would put-on feeling, what would
that be? maybe in nanoseconds. Feeling is subconscious and
touch is a sense. later is feeling a sense as well? Or are
they both the same? What is different between feeling and
hearing? Can we clarify its difference?
Do you sit and watch television as soon as a suitability of adjoin or
smell? Not at least from my blurb tube you can't. Did you
ever think of hearing a television program? Of turning your
back to the box and watching the show? Why not? Why not
try it and setting this true disconnect, this gap, that I'm
talking about. Strain your ears to hear. Learn again what
it means to hear.
What brings sight and hermetic together? Meaning and
definition becomes solitary throughout our growing years. When
a parent points to something upsetting in the air and calls it
a butterfly or a plane. as soon as we sat in class and see
pictures of the Eiffel Tower or a bullfight in Spain. There
was no sound. every we could attain was imagine, place
assumptions upon what solid could be, would be. And incredulity if
there will be a grow old with we will be there, later than we will
hear. And be skillful to be of the same opinion a characterize of an eagle once one
actually carried by the wind above.
We see a portray of a beautiful women, you know, the perfect
10, in some magazine. You wish to be subsequent to her or to want
her. next one daylight you meet her in the street and listen her
voice. It squeaks as if you were stroking chalk backwards
across a blackboard. You can't wait to direct and hide. The
disconnect, the gap, was there. But gosh darn it, shes a
10, you say. In a split second from sight to sound, the
desire to be with her to have her dropped, it wasn't the
same.
It is said, "seeing is believing," is that the truth? How
many of us know that isn't always the truth, still we've heard
it fittingly frequently there are assumptions tied to it that makes
its seem when the truth. How many assumptions have you made
because of things you've seen and hear, made surrounded by the
gap, in the company of the promptness of sight and the slower hearing?
What would fiddle with in your daily routine if you began really
hearing, slowing next to to 1,100 feet per second? What would
you loose? What would you gain? Would the get be
positive? every thoughts to think about, to mull on top of in our
simple nevertheless complicated little minds.
I urge on you to shift a tiny in your life and start to
give equal value to hearing if you can. To listening to the
universal sounds, to what is in the distance below the quickness of light.
Light that gives you the deed to see. But to begin to
see in the same way as your ears.
"Its not what you say but how you tell it," is a phrase
frequently told. Is it the truth? Or is the genuine complete how
everyone else hears it that makes a difference?
The resolved is that the gap can never be brought together.
All our senses are upon vary parts of our rainbow. Don't
loose sight of hearing. Practice differently today and
tomorrow. Lie in bed and hear the walls. listen the breeze
whenever outdoors. hear the birds grow. Yes, you can once
you learn to hear again. listen your heart beating and watch
the cravings for things you know you shouldn't have go bye.
Learn discernment surrounded by the two. close your eyes in the
next meeting, what do you hear? What do you not?
As Shakespeare in the manner of said, "That is the question?" This is
from me to you and for fuel for thought. Just appropriately you grow.
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